The Rainey Girls

Homeschool = Fun

2011-03-03T19:01:00.000-08:00

How much fun can you have in one day.... one week day..... let's see:

Well, the order of these pics are messed up... but you get the idea. Fun with pipe cleaners after breakfast, play date in the back yard mid-morning. (yes those are leaves left over from fall - gross i know.) Then the girls begged to take a bath in the big bath tub. Believe it or not we even squeezed in time for school too! Granted I won't lie, not all days are this great, but I still love it! (Well, most of the time!)

What's gotten into me??

2010-10-01T19:39:00.000-07:00

Wow, I thought I was officially done blogging, but here I am.... randomly posting. So much is going on, life is happening at full speed 'round here, can't keep up!!! I hope I get enough pics to remind the girls of how much fun we have someday, because I'm not going to get it all into words!

Adara will be ONE in 11 days.... please someone, slow time down!!!! She is standing on her own, but does NOT take steps unless she is holding on to someone or something. She waves and says hi. Says hello with a phone up to her ear, back of head, or neck. Says mama and da of course. Still a blondie!!! We attempted one year pics, she would NOT cooperate!! We'll try again next week maybe.

Aspen is ALWAYS cracking us up! Everything is "cool" right now. She is extremely moody - it NEVER fails I always pick the wrong spoon to give her.... we go through 3 or 4 at least to find the one she prefers for that particular meal. She is a paci thief. She peed on a pumpkin at Ettienes.... sorry to anyone who bought one from there.... you will never know if it was yours!

Ava is attending kindergarten at home this year... it has been quite the adjustment for our little social butterfly. It is so good and so hard all at the same time. We have art class on Monday afternoons, gymnastics on Tuesdays, and PE on Fridays. She has met many new friends who also homeschool, but still struggles with not going to "the real school". Sweetheart, this was a hard decision for your mama, but we are doing what we feel is best, and we have prayed about it MUCH!! It wasn't too hard for daddy... he's all about it! You LOVE all the reading we do. I love not having to pry out of you all you did at school.... I know because I did it with you! As I'm writing this Ava and her daddy are sound asleep in the backyard in our new 6 person tent.... moving on up..... filled up our 4 person one!

Well, there is NO way to catch up on photos, so I'll just pic some recent ones from our adventures!

Crazy girl Ava... we had a free evening - THANK YOU JESUS - so we did some exploring!

5th bday and soap

2010-05-09T12:18:00.000-07:00

Adara is entered in the Right To Life Baby Contest on their website www.daviesscountyrtl.com. You can still enter your little one ages 0 to 3!!! Check it out!!

Well, I never got around to posting pics of Ava's 5th birthday party which was mainly Fancy Nancy with a little princess thrown in!!! That's what she wanted! I was so proud of her, she made a lot of the decor herself (with help from mom) from ideas in her Fancy Nancy Tea Party book. We had a great time and a BEAUTIFUL cake made by Steph Willis/Custom Cakery!! Thanks again Steph!! I gave her free reign because we couldn't decide on a cake... turned out perfect, and yummy!!!

The party goers..... poor Isaac.....I hope he wasn't scarred for life by being the only boy!!

Not sure what happened with this teeny tiny pic... it was so cute!! darn it

Also, I'm going to host a Pure Hearts and Clean Hands Soap Company "home show" on Thursday night. I dislike hosting parties and I don't want anyone to feel obligated to come, BUT, the reason I'm having it is not for free stuff for me but I want to share it with YOU!! I really like everything that I have been using... the bath soap, laundry detergent, oil for my face. I am in the "transition" period with my hair and the shampoo bar, but i'm gonna stick it out. Anyway, excema on Adara's face has almost completely gone away, the bumps on my girls arms and legs are MUCH better... and they smell great!!! Plus the main reason is there are none of the harmful and toxic chemicals found in the commercial baby soaps, not to mention the adult stuff!! Not to mention it is very affordable and Adam and Heather live and make their products in Odon. They seem to be awesome people! So there is my schpeel (not sure how you spell that!) ... come check it out Thursday night May 13th at 630pm, kids and husbands welcome if you want to bring them along! If you don't know where I live you can message me with your email!

Here is their webpage: http://www.phcnaturalsoap.

Please read this

2010-05-05T20:02:00.000-07:00

I felt compelled to share this journal entry from our friend Cindy who we worked withnwhile we were in India a few years ago. Nathanial is going there for a few weeks in June. We have the money that he will need for the trip, but are going to try to raise some money to help with the needs of these people. We are going to try to have a yard sale in 2 weeks and maybe add a bake sale along with that. All of the money will be going directly to help the people. If anyone has anything they would like to donate to the sale or would like to make a donation you can leave a comment with your email or contact me another way. Please take the time to read it... it is very moving.

I saw hunger. Its real. Its destructive. It's a daily threat.
Yesterday, I was in our community visiting some people. I saw hunger. The struggle to defeat it. The fight against it. What is my job here? How can I come alongside my dear friends, who day by day battle against hunger?
I met Asa and her three children under age six. They were fighting hunger. Asa looked thinner then before. She's been working manual labor to pay her rent. She carries cement all day long. She can't weigh more than 90 pounds herself. Her landlord takes all her salary. There's not much left to buy food for her small children. Her husband has been away for three months. He sold her brother's rickshaw, then gambled away the money from the sale. Now he can't be there, until he earns enough to pay his debts. Meanwhile, his wife struggles to survive. Her children are hungry. Eat nutritious food, we say. Eat lentils every day, and enough vegetables. Easier said then done. Many times they survive on only rice and salt. How can I help them?
Later, I met Zakir's wife. They sell fish. She told me yesterday their fish didn't sell. Its now starting to spoil, no one will buy it. If our fish doesn't sell, how will we buy more, how will we eat today? She doesn't know. Maybe they won't eat. They have three daughters all under age 11. The little one is quite malnourished. Add oil to her rice each day, I say. Oil costs money. She can't add something she can't buy. She knows Jesus and is his follower. She told me, “I'll go home and pray and ask God to help us.” Father, will you please help them? How can I help them?
Yesterday, I met Ruby and Naresh. As always, they made tea, and he offered me and my friends a homemade ice cream bar that they sell in the hot season. He has a cart he pushes around and sells ice cream he has made. I was worried about if it was made with clean water, but I ate it anyhow. Their hospitality amazes me. They struggle to survive. Will enough people want ice cream today? Still, we brought them the gospel, and I've never gone to their home when they haven't made me tea- sharing the little that they have with us. Milk and sugar cost money. They always give us biscuits too. Their generosity and gratefulness put me to shame. They truly are like the widow, who give out of their need, not their excess. Father, would you please provide for them? Would you please multiply their resources? Is there some way you want me to help them?
They sell their girls into prostitution and their boys into endentured labor sweatshops. Why? They are hungry. They have no choices. When the battle against hunger, threatens to overwhelm, they figure its better they be a prostitute than die of hunger. Its better they work without pay (child slaves) than that they die without food.
I need staff. I need people who will come and help me come alongside these dear ones in their fight against hunger. So many children die of hunger related problems. Every day. Every three seconds a child dies of hunger related illnesses. Oh God, please don't let them die. It's preventable. We can stop this! But I need help. I need people who can come and create jobs and small businesses here. I need people who know how to start small income generating businesses. I even have money for this, but no time, no people to do this. I need new staff who can come and help with self help groups, encouraging and teaching women how to earn income. So their children won't be hungry. I need people who can help men create simple business plans. Disciple and train.
The harvest is ripe, the laborers are needed. People are dying from hunger here. Will someone respond? How can I respond?
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I went yesterday and delivered some oil, some lentils, some bananas to one of these families. A small act of kindness. Oh that God would do miracles of provision for them! He is the same God who fed the five thousand from loaves and fishes. He is the same God who provided for the widow when she collected oil containers from her neighbors and her oil didnt run out until they were all full. I'd love to see our believers pray over their rice and see it multiply.
Be blessed! Thanks for your prayers and support of what we are doing here.

What a night!

2010-04-05T18:53:00.000-07:00

Well... where to start.... I'm gonna have to make this short. Ava gave Aspen a haircut Monday night while I was sitting on the back porch with Adara. At first I didn't know whether to be mad or sad.... as this was Aspen Grace's first haircut!!! I decided on sad, and then it was even a little funny, although I won't let Ava know that!!! Thanks to Meghan, Aspen is styling now! Tuesday was Ava's 5th birthday! Happy Birthday sweetheart! You have forever changed our lives and we love you, now and forever!

One rotton girl!!

Aspen getting her hair "fixed".
Ava and friends.

The fam...Easter 2010. Thanks to Mandi for the awesome bows-delivered at 10pm Saturday night just because she knew I wouldn't get any myself! What a great friend!

Dare-Bear is rolling over (finally!), eating some cereal, and getting better at sitting up! She is almost 6 months old.

Come check it out!

2010-03-13T16:48:00.000-08:00

Many of you know Amber Cook... she is hosting a Pure Hearts and Clean Hands Soap Company home show this coming Monday, March 15th at the Cherry Ghost Coffee House at 6pm. It is located on the corner of Main St and Hwy 57 here in Washington. I'm excited to see all they have to offer so I wanted to share with all of you! The couple who owns the company are from Odon and make everything at their house. I've liked what I've seen so far! Their website is: www.phcnaturalsoap.com if you want to check it out for yourself! They offer natural soap & shampoo, simply Earth mineral cosmetics, lotion bars, deodorants, lip butters, toothpaste, dead sea bath salts, massage oils, bug repellant and more... Hope to see some of you there!

Adara Hope - 4months

2010-02-14T15:33:00.000-08:00

Boo... our computer is broken again, so no pics of our little Dare-Bear... but I just wanted to record our latest well-visit info. Adara had her 4 month check up on 2/10 and she weighed in at 14lbs 7oz!! That puts here in the 75th percentile! (I actually thought she'd be bigger then that!) She was 24.25 inches long. Perfectly healthy, praise the Lord! And now we have cream that is clearing up the rough patch on her face, so all is WONDERFUL! She is so smiley and laughing all the time..... and last night she slept 10 hours straight! She is so good to her mommy!

Time for some catching up!

2010-01-24T18:29:00.000-08:00

I can't believe tomorrow is Monday again! I love my job, but more and more it seems that I cannot do all the things I would like to do and work those 2 days!! That seems absurd, I still have 5 days off every week!! I've been in the cooking mood and that takes a LOT of time! But Nathanial is with me and has helped a TON! The other night we made a great new mac-n-cheese with veggies and chicken... it was great and the kiddo's actually liked it as well! Then Nathanial made pretzels last night while I helped make a snail with the girls' new "bendaroos". (However you spell that!) Today Nathanial whipped up a bunch of whole wheat bread dough for bread bowls sometime this week! We ate at Panera on Saturday... and are now craving good bread!! We have been enjoying each other so much.... but my goodness my girls are just growing so fast! I want to savor each moment with them, and at the same time reach out to those all around us that are hurting, and spend time with our friends, and cook, and keep my house decently clean, and decorate (I'll be surprised if the decorating EVER gets done!!)....... geez, can you see why I feel like I don't have time to work!!! Some friends of ours, Shane and Michelle, and going to have an especially tough week. Please keep them in your prayers if you don't mind. The Lord has been doing an awesome work in them, but this week is going to be so hard. My goodness, while your at it, pray for some sunshine!!!! My mood needs it!!!

Aspen had her 2 year well-visit last week. She HATED seeing the Dr. even though he is so great with our girls! She didn't want to get weighed even... screamed and screamed through most of the visit! We did finally get her weight... 28lbs. She was near the 90th % for height and just over 50% for weight. Well proportioned and very healthy! I figured, but heck, if insurance will pay for the visit, why not go?? She hadn't been to the Dr. in 6 months probably... knock on wood...

Believe it or not, the Rainey's have been getting a little crafty!!! Fun times!

Here's my little puppy, she's got herself tied up to the crib with a scarf!

Adara has been stealing our hearts with her beautiful smile and giggles!
The girls hung out with Aunt Shelli while we did some shopping... dress up is what they love!!!

The Day After Christmas

2009-12-26T11:41:00.000-08:00

We seriously had a great Christmas this year! All month we tried to make it a special point to teach our kiddo's the true meaning of Christmas and I think that's why we could really enjoy the season so much ourselves. "Jesus" came to pick up the box they filled with toys to give away, and they found some new toys in it's place Christmas morning. We had an awesome time with both of our families. The kids did get spoiled maybe a little too much by the grandparents... but, that's just the way it is I guess!! Actually mom and dad got spoiled too.... we recieved a Wii and an awesome IPOD dock... we appreciate the gifts soooo much and love them!! The girls have loved staying home all day today to play with their new stuff. Christmas Eve we cooked up some food and went to enjoy a meal that Kacie Ellis had planned for those who needed it or wanted it. We sat with a lovely couple from Cannelburg and had good conversation and some laughs. Well, the girls and I did... Nathanial was busy setting up his new blog.... thejesuschallenge.blogspot.com, he'd be thrilled if you check it out.

Here are some pics from the night of Ava's preschool program!

She was sooooo excited to get to wear her Christmas dress Aunt Shelli bought her!

Backtracking a little, Aspen turned 2 on the 19th!! I can't believe it! She is so much fun right now and so smart!! She's pretty much got the potty training thing down, as long as she wants to anyway. You just never know what mood she's gonna be in.... but we have definately been saving money by not buying as many diapers!!! That makes momma happy! She is putting words together and kindof speaking in sentences.... like: Mommy, bobbi (paci), pink. Yeah, yeah,yeah.... we shouldn't still have the bobbi.... but i've become quite the softie in that area! She was so excited to open gifts this year! I love watching her face light up! She LOVES to read books, and rip pages out of books as well.

Aspen's new ride!!

My little baldie!!

Loving her chubby cheeks!!!

Ava with her favorite Christmas present!

worth watching

2009-12-16T13:29:00.000-08:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LkTyPzRzuwc

This video is really a good expression of what we've been feeling.

Nathanial found this video last year I think and I love it too. But I still struggle with wanting to buy a lot of "stuff". Last night we went Christmas shopping and it was NOT fun.... not that I'm ever a good shopper though!! :) But seriously, it's hard to go for a few things because I want A LOT!!! Then I get overwhelmed with decisions and end up mad and getting nothing! So annoying!!! I'm all in the Christmas spirit until I go shopping! Isn't that the opposite of most people?? I think I'll stick to shopping at "It's a wonderful life" for the remainder of my gifts. I love that store!

Tis the Season

2009-12-13T11:30:00.000-08:00

Written by the husband this time :) (you can probably tell!)

Well, the Christmas season is upon us. As parents, this time of the year presents us with so many challenges and joys. We always try to engage whatever culture we live in with a critical eye and present creative alternatives when we feel there may be a better way. We refuse to let commercials and consumerism hijack the celebrations we cherish. We're experimenting with our own family traditions. This is what we've come up with so far:

Instead of shopping on Black Friday, we observe Buy Nothing Day. This year we all had breakfast together, read stories, and started decorating. We talked with our kids about what Christmas really meant, and told the parable of the sheep and the goats. Jesus said "whatever you do to the least of these, that you do unto me." In that spirit, we got out a large box and asked the kids if they would want to give any of their toys to kids who might not have or get very much. They had tons of fun and put a lot of thought into what they chose. They filled up the box with toys, and mommy and the girls wrapped it together.

We've bought an Advent calendar, and the girls enjoy taking turns opening it each day and reading the bible verse with it.

We thought that maybe it was hypocritical to celebrate the birth of the guy who said "sell your possessions and give to the poor" by purchasing new possessions and giving them to the rich. We decided to either create gifts, make donations in someone's name, or, if we do buy something, buy local or fair-trade items.

We've limited the gifts we purchase for our kids. We each choose one smaller gift for each girl, and then we'll get one larger gift for the whole family.

Last night we went caroling at a few nursing homes with Miriam and Jordan Briggaman, Andre and Mandi Knepp, and Brianne and John Davidson. The kids seemed to have a blast and were definitely a blessing.

We're still trying to figure it all out, but we mainly want our celebration and anticipation to bring glory and honor to the One whom we anticipate and celebrate. Hopefully we'll make some fond memories along the way.

Pictures from the last few weeks.

A typical evening at the Rainey house.

Ava and Aspen "swimming at the Y." Aspen is in the pool.
Penny helping Than make breakfast burritos.

Some of our group of carollers.

The girls after carolling at Mandi and Andre's for hot chocolate and marshmallows.

Adopt A Jesus

2009-12-11T10:39:00.001-08:00

If your looking for something to do tonight I would sugget going to the Cherry Ghost Coffee House in Washington. Brandt Russo will be there showing the documentary that he's in and sharing about it. Music before hand with the documentary starting around 7:45 I think. Saw it last night, we had a great time. He's also raising $15,500 to help deworm kids in Africa (so they can absorb nut...rition) and he's not eating until it's raised. It's been 6 days today. adoptajesus.com, check it out.

Adopt A Jesus

2009-12-11T10:39:00.000-08:00

Time for catch up!

2009-11-13T06:47:00.000-08:00

Time for a little catching up!!! We had an elephant and a ladybug this year for Halloween. We honestly didn't make it to too many places. The girls were tired and getting in and out of carseats wasn't the most fun for them! They did enjoy showing off their costumes for a little while though, and got PLENTY of candy in those few stops!!

Adara had her 4 week well-visit. She weighed 8lbs 9oz, and was 21.5 in long. She has jumped up to the 50th% from the 25th% just 2 weeks ago. She is growing and changing so fast. She is awake so much more now and focusing on things and people around her. She is such a joy to our family.... we already can't imagine life without her! Her sister's are such a big help and adore her as you will see in the next pictures!!

Aspen and Ava are shooting some kind of wild animal here.

And here they are lifting weights together! I never knew tinker toys could be so many different things. Ava also made me a cane yesterday when we played little red riding hood so i could be the grandma. I think I've seen a dog-house made of tinker toys this week too!

My maternity leave has really let us just enjoy this time together as a family. Mostly it's the girls and I as Nathanial has been pretty busy with different things, so we spend a lot of time at home or go to my parents during the day to play. Life has slowed down, and honestly, sometimes I feel like it's a little too slow. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE to sit and hold Adara and watch the girls play but we get a little antsy at times. I know I will regret saying this someday, when the girls are older and we are pulled every direction with activities and sports... so I am gonna try and just enjoy. Maybe I need to get a little crafty?? The friends that we worked with in India are coming in this weekend. They will be speaking at our church on Sunday morning and then Monday night we are having a casual soup and sandwich dinner and they will be sharing more about missions, their lives and ministry, and India. That will be at 6:30 at our church, because the response is a little too large to have at our house. If you would like to come please just leave a comment...We would love to see you there!

My two puppies!

Playdough ice cream cones at Mamaw's... they were ALL business!

Fall Fun

2009-10-26T18:27:00.000-07:00

Just a quick photo/video update.

Adara Hope's first bath at home. Everything was going smoothly until both sisters decided to help. Luckily their "help" only resulted in a dropped camera and wet pajamas.

Pen loves to climb the trees in the orchard at Nana's

Is that joy or fear on her face? Who knew a pile of cast off plant parts could be so much fun?

A doggy prayer circle and a sample of tonight's fun.

Adara Hope Rainey

2009-10-15T15:01:00.001-07:00

INTRODUCING ADARA HOPE RAINEY

BORN OCT. 12, 2009 AT 11:02 A.M.

6 lbs 10 oz, 20 1/2 in.

WELCOMED HOME BY

AVA FAITH & ASPEN GRACE

YIKES!

2009-10-11T17:13:00.000-07:00

If I didn't look like a sick, tired person I would post a pic of my prego body for the last time.... maybe last time anyway!! I'm freaking out a bit and wondering how I will EVER sleep tonight. My girls went to their grandparents to spend the night, and I am crazy sad that they will just seem so much bigger tomorrow!!! But excited to meet our new addition at the same time. I love this baby so much, and sometimes it seems a little scary giving birth... just trusting that all is well and we have a healthy baby growing inside. That will be a relief after tomorrow for sure.... it seems very active, but I can't wait to see the little bundle and hear that first cry. I could go on and on.... my mind sure is!! But I think I need to pick up the house and see to all the last minute things I guess!!! May tomorrow just get here already!!!

No later than the 12th.

2009-10-07T18:58:00.000-07:00

Well, it looks as if baby Rainey will be here no later than this coming Monday. Dr. says it's time to get this baby out! The baby is measuring small, less than the 10th percentile so he doesn't want me to go any longer than that. Anyway, as luck would have it I have developed a pretty nasty cold today and am pretty miserable, so I believe I am going to try to get some rest. I am thinking my next post will be an introduction to baby Rainey... can't wait to see what the little punkin is!

Praise the Lord!!

2009-09-19T10:27:00.000-07:00

First of all... Nathanial and I had really been praying for baby to do it's little flip, but I had finally come to terms with the whole situation. I know God is in control, and obviously a healthy baby is of the utmost importance to us..... so I finally had calmed down and realized it would all be okay. Then a few days later I noticed that even though most of the movements still felt the same, the hiccups I felt were extremely low.... too low for a breech baby! So ultrasound confirmed that baby had indeed flipped over! Thank you Lord!!! Now, just stay put! If I have this one as early as I did Aspen, it would come on October 9th. I'm so excited! Everytime I go into a store I think I NEED to know what this child is... the suspense is killing me... but it's so FUN at the same time!

We did family pics with Brittany last night... can't wait to see them! I'm sure they will be great!

Ava started pre-school and soccer. She, of course, loves school and her teacher Ms. Jamie! She would go everyday if she could and has actually told me she wants to go to Cardinal Care when she's not at school instead of staying home! That made me kind of sad... I thought we had fun together! Soccer.... well.... isn't going so well. She gets so excited about it, and then it never fails that she gets knocked down and it's all downhill from there. We've tried to explain to her that it's just part of the game but it hurts her feelings and then she just stands on the field and refuses to play the rest of the game!! I don't think it helps that her daddy is the coach! She's so tender-hearted and I don't want to punish her for that, but I do want her to try her hardest and have a good time! I'm not sure how to handle that. We might just have to stick with dance and gymnastics... I don't know!

First day of school, 2009

Sweetie Pen cheering her sister on!

Aspen is growing like a little weed and starting to put words together into little sentences. She is definately coming out of her shell and doing so well staying with other people. A couple of weekends she and Ava spent the night at one grandma's and then the other the next night and Aspen was all about it! She didn't mind being away from us at all. I'm glad that she is doing so well, but a tiny part of me liked her being so clingy! It feels good to know your kids love so much!

All of the Rainey great-grandchildren with their Grammie!

I'm sure more has gone on, but I can't think of anymore so I'm just gonna post some pics and be done! I hope everyone is enjoying this beautiful day with time outdoors!

This may seem a little silly....

2009-08-24T09:48:00.000-07:00

but this stubborn child in my belly is refusing to flip over!!! I'm 32 weeks on Wednesday, and yes, I know we still have plenty of time to flip...I also know that the odds are getting slimmer with each passing day!!! I also know that a C-Section would not be the end of the world but for some reason I'm a little terrified by the thought!! So, if anyone who might be reading this would just say a quick prayer for our baby to please flip over so we can hopefully avoid any surgery I would soooo appreciate it!!! Thanks!!

Last day of summer vacation!!

2009-08-13T05:10:00.000-07:00

Well, today is the last official day of summer vacation for Nathanial..... poor guy! Or poor us?? Not sure, the small amount of time that he has been home this summer has been great, but he is one busy person!! Anyway he has requested that I post an update with some pics from Holiday World. He actually wrote the last post, if anyone noticed. He writes so much better than I do! I have been totally slacking on keeping pictures updated, baby books wrote in, and blog updated since all the moving and being pregnant. I'm so sorry to my children!! It doesn't mean mommy loves you any less! I find myself watching them and thinking to myself, "I'm going to cherish this moment and remember it forever!", but we all know that memories do fade and I need to capture the moment either with words or pictures!!!

So.... here goes!

First off I'll share some pics of how well Aspen enjoyed her day! She was not a fan of any rides except the carousel! It was the ONLY one she didn't scream on!

Ava of course had to try the rockclimbing wall she found.... practicing for her future occupation of "rockclimbing girl".

This pic is from one of the days mommy had to work and daddy made breakfast... the "baby" pancakes were a hit!!

Last but not least a certain someone decided all of a sudden to quit sucking her thumb. As much as mommy wishes we could take it back, she had been promised a puppy if she quit. So as you might guess, here is Ava with her new puppy Jessie. Jessie is the puppy who has finally quit crying through the night but still poops and pees where she pleases.... if we ever get this dog trained I will be surprised. If anyone has any tips I'm accepting any advice I can get. I think one of the main problems is the lack of consistancy from us.... but you know, my kids take priority of the dog, as well as sleep. It's one thing to get up to take care of the girls, but to let the dog out at 3am... sorry Jessie! But the girls do love her, Aspen loves to "hold her", but I'm pretty sure the puppy runs from her usually!!

According to Ava....

2009-07-19T19:39:00.000-07:00

Ava is at such a precious age right now. Her little mind is soaking up and reflecting on the world around her. She has especially taken to learning new praise and worship songs or making up her own. This morning at church Andre played her two favorites right in a row. As soon as she recognized the songs, her eyes would get huge and she'd look at Nathanial and say "Daddy, I know this one. It's 'You never let go," or "'Sing, sing, sing." Well as the other songs started, she'd listen and sing for a while, then whisper something to her daddy. Nathanial would get a big smile. This happened for each following song. Ava was making up titles for each of the songs she didn't know. So, according to Ava, we sang at church this morning:

Oh no you never let go

Sing, Sing, Sing

Love and Cheers for Jesus

Jesus died on the cross to save the world

Jesus makes our hearts feel better

and

Jesus loves the world

It was so precious to see her think deeply about the songs, cup her little hand around her mouth, and whisper in her daddy's ear.

Her are some pictures from Minnesota of Ava performing her own music and choreography.

Back from Minnesota!

2009-07-12T18:31:00.000-07:00

I'm so tired right now, but with three days of work ahead of me I know this won't happen if I don't do it right now!! We just got back today from our week in Minnesota. We had a great time, the weather was perfect. Minnesota summers are great! Blue skies, cool breeze, great sights.... what more can you ask for?? We went up to visit the Anderson's who are in Minneapolis for the next 6 months. They are the family we went to India to work with. It has been two years since we've been back so it was great to see them and catch up. I don't know if Ava really remembered them, but it took her no time to warm up to all of them and then she wanted them to come with us when we left! We spent 3 days with them and then headed up to Duluth and the north shore of Lake Superior to do some tent camping. Some days were very chilly and others were near perfect. I'm just going to try and pick some pictures from the hundreds that we took!!

This is of us and the Anderson's.... Nathanial taught their son and younger daughter while we were in India. There eldest, Jenna, went to high-school in Chaing Mai, Thailand.

Some of the food we had at a Nepali restaurant in St. Paul, it was very authentic and tasted very much like the food we had in India.

Ava's reaction to how the food tasted!!

Petting the goats at the Minnesota Zoo.

The girls had fun swimming where the Gooseberry River runs into Lake Superior, the temperature change from one side of that sandbar to the other was DRASTIC to say the least! The lake was FREEZING!!! Painfully so!

Ava and Nathanial standing at the top of Gooseberry Falls. Ava had a blast rock-climbing. She wanted NO help from mom and dad, which was hard for me... she's so little. We just made sure to always stand where we could catch her if she fell! Thank God that didn't happen! I'm so thankful for nothing more than minor scratches on this trip!

The sweeties relaxing at our campsite after their shower! Giving them showers at the campground was fun let me tell ya!

These last two pics were taken at Leif Erickson Park in Duluth. They have the most beautiful and fragrant rose garden! I love going there! I lived only 2 blocks from there for about 6 months and spent a lot of time walking along Lake Superior. I guess there aren't actually roses in the pictures, but those just didn't turn out as cute as these two!

Oil Over My Head

2009-06-15T12:10:00.000-07:00

"How good and pleasant it is when brothers (and sisters) dwell together in unity...For there the Lord bestows his blessing, even life evermore." Psalm 133

After church on Sunday, Brandi and I came home to do a little cleaning before we headed off to three different parties that afternoon. Cleaning is usually an ordeal at our place because our daughters love to "help." Typically we split up; one of us watches the kids, and the other tackles the chores. I volunteered to watch the girls because I don't clean the right way anyways, and thought I was off the hook when Ava brought her basket of wooden blocks into the living room. I was even further surprised when she invited her sister to join in.

For the next 30 minutes (forever in toddler time) the girls played side by side. Ava channelled her inner Frank Gehry to create some architectural masterpieces that seemed to defy gravity, and Aspen stacked the same three blocks over and over looking up at me with a squeal at each new arrangement. Occasionally Aspen would spot just block she needed serving some important role in Ava's latest creation. As Pen grabbed for one of the flying buttresses, I waited for the eruption after the destruction. But as the blocks echoed of the bamboo flooring, two little giggles mingled together to create perhaps some of the most beautiful music I'll hear this side of heaven, and I thought to myself, "This moment is just like precious oil upon my head, like oil running off my head and down my 3 day stubble." (read the rest of psalm 133) Ok, I didn't really think that. In fact, I hate the thought of anything oily being on my face. In the Bible however, oil represents blessing, and I was definitely blessed. I did think that if I derive this much joy from watching my children work together joyfully and coexisting peacefully, mustn't God also draw pleasure when His children do the same? And if He does, wouldn't that be something worth striving towards creating everyday?

Unity between God's children is so important that instruction on it is in nearly every book in the Bible. It was also an important focus of Jesus' last recorded prayer before the crucifiction. In John 17 he prayed for future believers "that they(we) may be one; even as You, Father are in me, and I in You, that they may also be in Us, so that the world may believe you sent me." Jesus hinges the world believing that God sent him on his followers unity with one another and Him.

You don't have to talk to many people today to realize that one of the biggest stumbling blocks to belief in God is the division among his followers. When the world sees Christians living in unity and peace with one another in the midst of the chaos of this present age, they will find it easier to come to faith in Christ.

Here are just a few verses from the tremendous amount of Biblical text on the issue. The writer of Hebrews commands "Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to be holy." Paul writes to the Ephesians "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." And to the Colossians "Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." Jesus went so far as to say that if we are bringing our worship to the Lord and remember someone has something against us, we should stop and go be reconciled and then come back. Matt 5:23-24

So today, if you hold a grudge or unforgiveness, or have taken offense, bring a smile to your Heavenly Father's face, pour oil over his head, lay down your grievances, be reconciled to one another, forgive as you have been forgiven, and play nicely together ;)

Nathanial

I'm bad at this... I know!!

2009-06-07T19:06:00.000-07:00

I'll have to admitt, I'm a little jealous of all you awesome bloggers out there!! I really want to record our daily happenings for our own record....and just like I said I wouldn't.... I'm getting worse as the years go by!!! I can't remember the last time I actually printed any pictures, I get so confused trying to remember where I am as far as uploading to snapfish..... how do you guys do it!!!! I will say, that Aspen does have a detailed baby book.... and #3 will too.... but other than that hopefully I at least get all of our pics onto cd's I guess!!

Anyway, a little update on a few Rainey happenings...

Nathanial is done with school for the summer!!!!!!! It is great having him home all the time. I only work 2 days a week, but it's hard to even go those two days when we could all be together! Saturday was the day we finally decided to get a swingset for the girls.... it's been on the list. We randomly seem to pick projects and tackle them, so after hours of searching and going to every place in town and looking on the internet we decided on a simple wooden playhouse with a slide and swings. The girls love it of course, and wouldn't you know I didn't take a picture yet! But I will and add it later!!

One day last week we took off to Shoals of all places to go for a hike. Nathanial wanted to check out a potential climbing place so we went along. We hiked about a mile down this winding little road by the river with some cliffs on the other side. Ava got to try a little climbing and it was Aspen's first official hike that we can think of. It seems strange to us that we didn't take her hiking last summer, but we can't seem to recall any time. They had a blast. And we got some cute pics of them.

Tonight the Shaffer crew came over to play. The kids had fun and my little Aspen got so incredibly dirty. She gave herself cherry kool-aide (which she doesn't normally get), and ate about 5 cute little brownie cones that Michelle made.... but let's just say the mess which was her face wasn't so cute when bugs started getting stuck in the goo!!! They are sound asleep in bed now.... just love them to pieces!!

I hope you all have a wonderful week!! We will be busy with Bible School in the AM and working on the house I'm sure!!

Where do the days go?

2009-05-16T16:25:00.000-07:00

To be honest, sometimes I get very frustrated when an entire day goes by and I feel as though I got NOTHING accomplished. I adore my children, but I take one step forward with getting this house put together, and they tear apart my previous three steps!!! In the same amount of time I took one step that is.... ahhhhhh! But I do, with all of my heart, want to cherish these precious moments when my girls are little and home with me all the time! I feel guilty for how upset I get at them sometimes. They are the most precious, beautiful gifts from God and I get so mad because they mess up my silly house. Pregnancy has definately made me emotional this time around.... I'm sitting here teared up as I type, unusual for me I must say. So many things are different this time. I've been more sick, more strange pains, more emotions going.... either it's because I'm 30 or this is a boy, not sure. I have started to feel the little stinker kicking. I LOVE that feeling.... it's like baby is telling me "hey, i'm okay in here"!!

Ava had her first dance recital today... she was SO STINKING CUTE!!! The older girls where great, but I think the younger ones stole the show.... all those cute little ballerina's! I'm gonna include some pics this time! I'm getting caught up on pictures... sort of. Nathanial put a ton of house pics, before and after, on my facebook so i probably won't put them on here... we'll see. Well, I heard it's supposed to be dry for awhile.... looking forward to some pretty days ahead!

Yes, Ava climbed into the washer today to hide! She is such a silly girl, and then of course Aspen wanted in too. Couldn't resist a picture of the two.

WE'RE IN!!

2009-05-06T19:11:00.000-07:00

Well, we have finally moved in! Or I guess I should say we are currently moving in.... after 5 1/2 months of temp living I had forgotten how much stuff we have. As I unpack box after box and realize I had forgotten I even had some things I realized WE DON'T NEED THIS MUCH STUFF!!! But as I try to weed out, I think... well I might want to use this someday.... errrrrrrr!!! I'm trying though! I know this house is larger than our last, but I'm quickly running out of closet space. We are tying to organize well, but it's hard to do on a budget. I don't know if any of you have heard of The Container Store, but Than and I were looking through a catalog and they have awesome closet organizing kits.... the one we loved was $2000.00!!! Can you believe anyone would spend that much money to organize their closet!! uhhhh I'm thinking vacation!!!! Anyway, I'm loving living here already. The girls run around non-stop.... there is so much room to do just that - run!! I love the natural light from all of our windows... I really missed that living in a basement. Our bedroom is flooded with light in the morning... that makes it so much easier to get up! I'm looking forward to getting everything into it's place and enjoying many evenings with good food and good friends this summer! Now that our internet is up and running I'll have to upload some pics.... it's been awhile! When I have time I'll do just that!

Internet question....

2009-04-14T18:38:00.000-07:00

Someday, soon hopefully I can post about something interesting.... but sorry not this time! AGAIN!! I just had a question for anyone who might be reading this.... my husband and I are not very computer savy to say the least. We are contemplating not getting a land line when we move into our new home (very soon hopefully!) and are considering bridge max internet. Mandi I know you have it, but I was wondering if anyone else does or has any input as to what is the best, fastest, cheapest, etc. when it comes to internet. Any suggestions?

BLANKETS AND PILLOWS

2009-04-06T11:51:00.001-07:00

I'm trying to collect some new blankets and pillows for the Lengacher's if anyone would like to donate....... just let me know! Thanks! Mandi is trying to think of things as she notices and this is what she told me today.

Bored Anyone??

2009-03-31T06:00:00.000-07:00

First off, we are doing much better.... Aspen is on antibiotics as she has an ear infection, but last night she slept ALL night without one wimper!!! I honestly can't remember the last time that happened! Yeah for uninterrupted sleep!!! I needed some of that!!

Nathanial is on spring break this week kicking butt on our house! I'm soooo happy. Most everything has a coat of primer and the floors in the kitchen and 1 bathroom are almost finished! Cabinets come tomorrow!!! Anyway, we are starting the painting now. I think it will go quickly since there is nothing to trim around really, but Nathanial was wanting to have a "paint night". If anyone has any spare time and wants to help, we would LOVE it!! I hate asking for help, as I know we knew what we were getting ourselves into when we decided to do this ourselves, but at the same time, we will be more than happy to pay back the favor if any of you need any help at any time!!! We are just soooo anxious to get moved in!! Soooo, we were thinking about hiting it hard Thursday night.... but who knows, so if anyone is interested just stop by or email or give us a call, whichever! Thanks! raineydaywarrior@yahoo.com, 698-1021 oh, Than said he would order pizza or something too!!

Life on Hold

2009-03-19T14:30:00.000-07:00

That is how I feel at the moment.... that the Rainey's are on hold.... from normal life anyway. I don't want to complain, I'm blessed to have each day that I have with my family, and I treasure the quote that I read - Always Look at Each Day as it Being the GREATEST Day to be Here!" Andrea Boes 01/09. If I could only learn how to do this!!! I'm thinking non-stop of the Boes family and Andrea's wonderful friends who I have watched stand by her side and be strong for so long. Andrea was truely blessed to have the friends she had here on this earth, as much as they were blessed by her. Anyway, we are still sick. I took Ava to the doc on Tues and was told it was simply viral and they gave her some steriods to help with inflammation in her lungs. I went to my doc today and got some antibiotics and cough medicine. I think what makes it the worst is just the nonstop nausea to go along with the cough and sinus junk. Man, I'm such a complainer!!! Sorry.... I'm in a rut and am having a hard time getting a grip and looking up. I so want to be a good mom and wife and I'm not right now. I love this little baby inside of me with everything I have, but I cannot wait til the first tri is over! Sorry for anyone who had to read such a whiney post.

Our little surprise.....

2009-03-10T17:34:00.000-07:00

Many of you probably already know this, but we'll tell the world now!! We are expecting our third little blessing in October!! It's still early, but Nathanial has not been able to keep this one a secret!!! We were very shocked.... we had just decided to wait before trying again, and by trying I mean round after round of clomid.... when I just couldn't get back to feeling like myself after having the flu. I decided to take a pregnancy test just to rule that out.... and much to my surprise, there were those two pink lines screaming back at me! Even though I can't imagine having another one before Aspen is two... we will survive and we will enjoy every tiring second!!

Getting Better

2009-02-25T12:39:00.000-08:00

We are doing better finally!! Aspen had a repeat chest x-ray this morning that was clear, and we are out and about and functioning normally again! I'm so happy to have us on the mend!!

Last Saturday night we spent the evening and night at the Springmill Inn with Nathanial's Grammy and Grandpa. We really had a great time and enjoyed spending time with them. I was very impressed with the Inn, it was very nice and very family oriented!!

I'm finally going to upload some pics, I only wish I had more recent ones of our house. We are hoping to move in, maybe, in about 6 weeks!! I hope!!! I'm ready for the girls to have their own bedroom and to have more space!! Until next time.....

2009-02-20T08:24:00.000-08:00

Well, the last 3 weeks haven't been the most fun for the Rainey's!!! We have all been sick, except for Nathanial that is. And let me just say, the girls we more sick then they have ever been and even I can't remember the last time I was that sick!!! Poor Aspen even ended up with pneumonia. But the good news is that we are on the mend.... I think anyway! We miss interaction with other people!!!! We've been cooped up for too long!! Seriously, I feel so disconnected. I love winter and all but I am so done with it now. I'm ready to feel good and enjoy some good weather and company!!

The house is coming along.... I would love to post some pics, but it's such a hassle unless I have a ton of uninterrupted time at someones house to upload and all that!! We are almost ready for drywall which is super exciting to me! Nathanial thinks we will be ready to move in in 6 weeks hopefully!! I can't wait!!!!! Well, since we haven't been doing anything, I don't even know what to write about. Boring I know!!!

One last thing, I know many of you probably already know from Jenelle's blog, but continue to lift Andrea Boes and her family up in your prayers..... my heart goes out to them.

Lazy and 30

2009-02-01T12:24:00.000-08:00

Yip, today's the day I've been dreading for awhile.... the big 3-0!! But all in all, I guess it's not so bad. I feel good and I have a wonderful family... what more could I ask for? We skipped church today, which isn't the norm for us and just spent the morning together. We don't get to do that too much with Nathanial busy working on our house every moment he's not busy with something else. It was wonderful, except I started getting too lazy, so we decided to take a walk in the melting snow. Aspen got to ride in the backpack, and let me tell you, she is a heavy little thing! I was wore out after tromping through the snow/ice carrying her!!! It did us all good to get out and enjoy the beautiful weather!! I love winter, but we found ourselves looking forward to spring so we can get out and do some hiking with the girls!! Well, I'm going to attempt attaching some pics.... I hope everyone enjoys their evening plans for the Super Bowl!!

Cozy Weather!

2009-01-27T13:30:00.000-08:00

Well, even though I was at work today and missed out on the sledding, I still love the snow!!! Nathanial was home with the girls today and took them sledding a little. Aspen's first time and he didn't take one picture!! He said he put my socks on her arms and legs to help keep her warm! That's funny to me, but at the same time a pretty good idea! She was fine until Nathanial couldn't keep up with the sled going down hill and dumped them out by pulling them sideways... poor baby!

The house is coming along. The addition is covered with decking and paper and the windows are in!! I guess plumbing, electric, and insulation are next, then on to drywall! I'm soooo excited to move in. I know our house really isn't that big... but it seems like it's gonna be huge to me. The upstairs could be two more bedrooms if we wanted it to be. But we aren't going to finish that just yet.

Well, I'm getting ready to brave the slick roads and get home to my family! If I ever have time and the internet access at the same time I'll post pics someday! I hope everyone is staying safe!!!

Do Princesses Wear Hiking Boots

2008-12-31T14:19:00.000-08:00

The title is the name of one of the books Ava got for Christmas from her Aunt Shelli. How fitting for a little girl in our family! Anyone that knows us very well knows that we enjoy hiking very much, but our little girl also likes her princesses!!! The girls got several books for Christmas and I think Nathanial and I are both enjoying the new reading material!!!

Aspen went ahead and turned one even though her mommy wasn't ready for it!!! Nelda took her birthday pictures (they are gonna be GREAT!) and we had a small party for her on the 20th. She devoured her cake, just like her sister she has a MAJOR sweet tooth! She got into opening her gifts a little more than I remember Ava doing. It is so fun to watch them rip into the wrapping paper and then squeal with delight when they see the new toy!!

Gabe enjoying a cupcake too!

Christmas this year was pretty relaxing. We spent the evening and night at my mom and dad's this year since we didn't put up a Christmas tree, so we could have a tree to put our gifts under in the morning. Ava went on "pretending" that Santa was real!! :) Nathanial rode his bicycle the whole 25miles to my mom and dad's!! It took him 3 hours! Christmas day we went to Nathanial's parents for the day. I think this was the least stressful Christmas ever. It was nice to just relax and enjoy time with our parents. The girls got tons of stuff of course. We watched a video that our friends in india had professionally done raising awareness of the work they are doing and it brought back memories, which made our Christmas seem a bit overkill. I hope to instill in my children that it is wonderful to give gifts, but to never lose sight of the real meaning of Christmas in all of it. And that there really are children all over the world who aren't loved by so many people and showered with gifts. But these children are loved by Jesus and when we love them we are loving Jesus. I hope that they go out and really love the unloved and don't hold them at arms length and just talk about the "poor little kids". Its so easy for me to do that.

On to the "project". Nathanial like me to update on the house. Things are progressing. The front porch is nearly done. The inside is ready for electrical, plumbing, and heating and cooling work. The addition has been started!!! And siding has been ordered and should be here soon!! Things are moving along!! Well, I hope everyone has a fun New Year's Eve.... we are hoping to!

One last thing! Congrats to Mandi and Andre on their new addition to their family. Ella is absolutely beautiful! I love her to pieces already!

BIG birthday this week

2008-12-15T09:51:00.000-08:00

My sweet baby will be 1 this week. I've been stuck on this thought for several weeks now. I love watching her grow, but I don't know if I'm ready for her to be 1!! Well, the day is coming soon, and there is nothing I can do about it! :) I'll post some pics over the weekend hopefully, we are having a small family party for her due to the holidays, our "inbetween" status, and because she really won't know the difference!!

Tonight is the Jubilee Christmas. I really enjoy helping out with that... and was so thankful for that day last year. After a long day involving work, jubilee christmas, then wrapping our families presents and tucking my ava into bed - lo and behold my water broke and 5 hours later little Aspen Grace was born!!

I'm on my lunch break that is almost over so I should be going.... pictures will come soon! Have a great day everyone!

LOVE the weather!

2008-12-05T10:15:00.000-08:00

Some may think I'm a little crazy... but I am loving the cold weather! Fall and winter are my favorite! I love jeans and sweaters, curling up with a fuzzy blanket to watch TV, even freezing while pumping my gas this morning just because I knew how good my heated seats and blasting hot air would feel in the van! Anyway, life has somewhat slowed down now that all the unpacking is done, for the time being anyway. It's just the usual, trying to keep our living space clean and orderly... yeah right!! Seriously, am I the only one who's house looks like a disaster zone all the time no matter what I do!!! Nathanial says I get more done on days that I work than when I'm home! Speaking of work, I'm only working 2 days a week now. I'm excited to get to spend more time at home, I just want to get organized and be productive--whether it's getting stuff done around the house or spending good quality time with the girls.

Our house is coming along. All of the new windows are in, Nathanial is getting ready to do the addition, and we have been starting the process of picking out cabinets, flooring, and interior doors. It's been fun! We have such a great time searching for the best deals. We got our appliances last weekend and got a killer deal! We were so excited! I keep meaning to take some pictures of the progress and I keep forgetting!

The girls are doing great. Aspen is WALKING!! I got in trouble at playgroup because I hadn't told anyone that she has been walking for several weeks now. But it's hard to pin-point the exact moment when they actually get the hang of it. She is all over the place now, but the poor thing is CONSTANTLY getting knocked down by her sister!! The fighting has begun, Aspen gets so mad at Ava and it's hard to keep from just laughing at her.

Aspen loves bath time in the sink... Ava doesn't pour water on her head all time!!

Rockband on the Wii

Last Monday a friend of ours from our time in India came to visit. Tigi's wife is German and they have been on "home assignment" in Germany for several months and he recently made his way to the States to visit some friends and his brother who is studying in Orlando. We loved being able to spend some time with him. It was interesting to get his take on America. We took him to Mi Pueblo and he couldn't believe the size of the drinks, he was amazed that we would eat more than the chips and salsa along with that huge soda. He took lots of pictures of the huge houses around with 6 car garages. In other parts of the world you just don't see the extravagant houses. Anyway, I'll leave you with a picture of Tigi, a great friend!

until next time....

INBETWEEN

2008-11-25T09:18:00.000-08:00

We are now officially inbetween old home and new home. We have settled into the basement at Nathanial's aunt Cindy's. We are unpacked as much as we're gonna be I think. It's nice and cozy.... I do miss sharing our nice Queen size bed, as now Nathanial, Ava, and I each have our own twin bed!! We did all 3 manage to fit in one bed for some snuggle time that Ava demanded!! We almost woke up Aspen just to say we were all 4 in a twin bed....I'm sure it will happen eventually! As far as moving out of our old house, I thought I would be really emotional, but by the end of the day Thursday I was so tired and ready to be finished I just didn't care that much! I did do a drive by on Sunday.... it's so weird to see other people's stuff at "my house"! I'm glad it's a young family who will also create lots of memories there as well!

Our new house is coming along.... the old siding is off, which reveals even older siding. Nathanial and my dad have been working hard this week installing our new windows. They look great! I need to post new pictures, and when I get the chance I will. We don't have internet access at our temp home.

Ava had her Thanksgiving program today at preschool. She was all dressed up like a pilgrim, cute as can be. Her class came out and she sang one song (sortof) with her class and then just walked off the stage and came straight to us. She said she was hot, tired, and thirsty and wasn't going back up there!!! I was sad, but it was just like her! She is a little sick AGAIN so I couldn't be mad.... anyway I didn't get any picks because I forgot our camera and my mom's battery went dead.

Well, I hope you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

So far behind...

2008-11-16T18:14:00.000-08:00

I'm so far behind...

Today was our big moving day.... too bad we still have a TON of stuff in our house! But this week I'll be slowly going through the rest to see what can be stored away and what needs to come with us to our temporary home. I have been horrible at taking pics lately.... and snapfish has GREAT deal on Christmas Cards right now too! 20 cards for 20 cents. I'm going to have to get one that.

Miriam and Jordan had their baby, Eli, last week. I spent the night with Miriam on her first night home from the hospital as Jordan had to work overnight. It's crazy how fast you forget how hard it is with a newborn those first few nights home. Sleep, well, it doesn't really happen! I was so tired, but it was worth it.... I always like to help. He's a cutie. Now I'm just waiting on baby Ella.... can't wait to see that pretty girl!

Well, I'm supposed to be cleaning house... so I better sign off. I hope you all have a wonderful week!

EXCITED!!

2008-11-05T05:41:00.000-08:00

Just a quick post to tell everyone the GOOD news!! We closed on our house last night! I'm a little sad to be leaving our very first home, we have so enjoyed living here and bringing two baby girls home from the hospital to this cute little house.... but..... so so so happy to officially own only one home now (i guess you can't really call it a home yet, it's more of a "shell"). Anyway, we need to be out by the 21st!! So i have 2 weeks to pack, and i haven't even started!! We will be living in the basement at Nathanial's aunt Cindy's. It's a very nice little place for us, pretty much like an apartment. Okay, i have some work to do! Have a wonderful day!

Kitty's and Puppies

2008-10-31T12:30:00.000-07:00

Well, well, well..... what have we been up to. Let's see here. Nathanial of course has been working most evenings at the new house. He tells me I need to post some new pics of it in here, but it's basically the same, except most of the walls, including the studs are gone now. We are changing the whole layout, I'm very excited about it. We did head up to Brown County to go mountain biking and just spend some time outdoors! The girls had fun playing in the leaves! It was very beautiful.

Last night was "trick-or-treating" for us... even though we only made it to 4 places, and Aspen didn't even get out of the van at our last stop because she was sleeping! She didn't so much like getting in and out of the car and her puppy costume was just a little short on her, so basically she wasn't a happy camper! But that's our little home-body!! Ava has (in the past month) become shy. I don't know if it's because we stay home a lot more now than we used to or what, but honestly I don't really like it. She wouldn't even say trick-or- treat to her grandma or nathanial's aunts last night!! Oh, and at dance class yesterday Ava decided she didn't want to leave my side!! This is so different for her!! Any advice on how to deal with this change in personality? And she wants to quit dance she says... I think I'll make her go at least 1 more month (even if she won't participate)... but do I let her quit after that?? Okay, enough of that, here are some pics!

Ava at preschool :)

Came across this....

2008-10-30T07:47:00.000-07:00

Couldn't help but share this, it was so good!

We believe that there is no real candidate or party that I think embodies a consistent ethic of life, because there is no one who fully embodies what it means to honor life, from the womb to the tomb (poverty, abortion, war) . Its the job of the church to embody the good news. .. and no candidate will effect change like the church (meaning us people as the living stones that make the church).

We have to figure out how not to just wait for politicians to make a change, but to embody the beliefs we hold and act on them. .. I don't see Obama or McCain enacting the tasks of Matthew 25... but usually, neither are we. Its time, to be the church. Be the change.Pro Life means a whole lot more the being anti-abortion. If you want to live pro life, adapt Mother Teresa's pro life stance...

"Please don' t kill the child . I want the child . Please give me the child. I am willing to accept any child who would be aborted, and to give that child to a married couple who will love the child, and be loved by the child . From our children' s home in Calcutta alone, we have saved over 3,000 children from abortions.These children have brought such love and joy to their adopting parents, and have grown up so full of love and joy"

Us Christians better start adopting new born babies and pregnant mothers, as well as extending grace to those who hurt us and wish us harm if we are to claim to be Pro Life. .. womb to tomb. .. No candidate can ever come close to changing this world like we can personally , with meaningful acts of concrete love. Love is our revolution, and Jesus is our commander and chief .

Just a thought

2008-10-23T07:09:00.000-07:00

I absolutely love having both girls home with me, but I'll have to admit that I also cherish Thursday mornings when Ava is at preschool and it's just Aspen and I. This morning I was rocking her to sleep for her morning nap. I was just thinking about how safe she feels when she's in mommy's arms. Anyone that's been around her knows what a mommy's girl she is. I was thinking about how I would never ever choose to let harm come her way and how I will always love her no matter what, and then I hear that still, small voice whispering in my ear. No matter what ever comes of our messed up world we live in, I am safe in God's arms. He feels that way about me, about everyone. It doesn't mean there won't be pain here, but ultimately my soul is safe with Him. It's a simple truth, but it became more real to me this morning.

Pumpkins and Inflatables

2008-10-11T18:26:00.000-07:00

Today we went out to Etiennes to see GG (Great grandma Buchheit) and pick out pumpkins. My girls got messy enjoying "pink milk" and cheetos and nana's, but they still look adorable to me! :)

Aspen and Uncle Nolan

Then it was off to annual Hog Roast for Harvest. Ava had a blast. Aspen was a little fussy, since she couldn't keep up with big sis.

I had so much fun!! That was the best inflatable I have ever seen!! Forget the kids, this one was for grown ups!!
My girls terrorizing my book shelf together!!

Thurs night

2008-10-10T19:04:00.000-07:00

ok, here goes the 6 random facts about me.....

1. My husband remembers what I was wearing the first time we met, orange tank and long green shorts (before long shorts were "in"). And by the way, he didn't like it at all, I was too "boyish" for him back then!!

2. My second toe is longer than my big toe. EWW, i know.

3. I have a tattoo, I got it the day Mandi's grandma got married.

4. We had a squatty potty in our apartment in India.

5. My house looks like this....

6. I'm married to a poet.

ok, about Thursday. i'm hosting an uppercase living open house. i love the stuff!! if anyone is interested it's going to be at 6:30pm at the cherry ghost coffee house on the corner of 57 and main st. anyone and everyone is welcome! :)

hmmmm...

2008-10-08T19:04:00.000-07:00

I've been tagged, twice now I think. It's gonna be tough to think of 6 random "unknown" facts. I'm mentally exhausted at the moment, I'll do it eventually! :)

One Sweet Girl

2008-09-29T18:31:00.000-07:00

Tonight as we were sitting at the supper table Nathanial and I were discussing America's current financial situation and the plunge of the stock market today. We were talking about Ava and Aspen's futures. I'm thankful that we have a God to place our hope and trust in. As long as our girls have God in their lives, their future is bright, no matter how much money they ever have. Nathanial was talking to Ava and asking her if she'd like to be a missionary when she grows up. She said: "What's a missionary?". Nathanial told her that if she was a missionary she could go and help little kids who don't know Jesus, are poor and don't have enough to eat or toys to play with. She said, "I think I'd like to do that!" Then she said, "But, I really just want to be daddy." If you can only imagine, we had a wonderful night enjoying our daughter. Of course, we enjoyed Aspen too... I don't want to leave her out!! Man, we love our girls!

The Wedding

2008-09-28T08:27:00.000-07:00

Well, we are all pretty exhausted after the BIG day yesterday. Even though my mother-in-law was the one who made sure Ava was where she needed to be all day!! Thank you to her.

Nathanial decided to have a work day at the new house in the morning, and then we had pizza for everyone at lunch to thank them for their help. Then it was rush rush to get to Gretchen and AJ's wedding in time to see Ava before hand. She had her hair done for the first time (and probably the last time for awhile, $30 for a 3 year olds hair is a bit insane, i'm kinda embarassed that i even had it done!). It was darling though. And she was excited that she had "curl-eees". Anyone who knows me very well, knows that I'm not too much of a girly girl and Ava doesn't get her hair curled very often!!

Ava got almost to the front of the church throwing out her rose petals when she ran out. She decided to go back to the beginning to get some more, all the while, picking some petals off the floor to put in her basket!! It was so funny! The wedding was very pretty.

Tired of being sick!!

2008-09-25T07:19:00.000-07:00

Ava and Gabe

We have been sick for going over 3 weeks!! UGH! Nothing severe, just the gooky eyes for the girls and a really annoying cough for me. I finally broke down and took an antibiotic. I'm not sure if it's just coincidence, but I did get a little better then. We've done some fun things, but you know how things just don't seem near as fun when you struggling to keep your cough under control at all times!! But things are looking up, and looking at it from the bright side.... I usually get this once a year, so maybe I'll be healthy all winter!!
Okay, lets see if I can remember what we did this week....

We went to the cruise in.... Ava has way way way to much candy. I hope we have lots of trick or treaters this year, we need to get rid of it!!!!!!

We went to Chuck E Cheese! Ava has been asking to go to "Chuck E Jesus".... that's what it sounds like anyway. She had a blast and informed me that "Chuck E Jesus is sooo cool". We got her 50 tokens, and it was fun at first, but by the time we were down to 15 tokens I thought I was gonna lose it. Aspen didn't like all the noise so well. Then we did a little shopping. My girls are just not shoppers... which doesn't suprise me, I'm not that much of a shopper myself. So we hit Old Navy and Express and headed home. The girls had fun hanging out with aunt Shelli and Mamaw all day! Aspen let Shelli hold her all day.... which if anyone knows Aspen that's weird. She usually is attached to my hip when we're around anyone that she doesn't see every day!

The new house is coming along. Nathanial is still working on the gutting it. It is dirty work!! We are getting excited about all the "new" to go in after this part is done. We are thinking we are going to build a garage soon, so we can store our stuff. We will probably be "homeless" for a few months. That will be interesting.

We have a big weekend coming up. Gretchen Davis is getting married. Ava is the flower girl. We are also super excited to meet Abigail Kassel. Nathanial's cousin Kris lives in Spokane, Washington and he and his wife will be home with their new baby. Can't wait to meet her!!

If you think about Michelle Schaffer this week, please pray for her, she has been sick for two weeks and no meds seem to be helping. She has a lot on her plate with 5 kids and her husband in Iraq! She could use your prayers! This picture was from one of the days we had the kids some. Ava loves all of them so much!

I'll leave you with some cute pics of the girls I took yesterday. Ava and her "master-piece", and then a picture of what I found in the girls' room this morning.

One more thing, if anyone is looking for a good book to read, I highly recommend The Shack. It's good, and challenges the way we think of God.

Moving forward with demolition!!!

2008-09-13T19:17:00.000-07:00

Well, I figure it's about time to post some pictures of "the project"!! We have had our new/old house for over a week... and I need to post our pictures of what it looked like when we got the keys. It's an old house, and not a "cool" old house at that. But with a LOT of work we hope to have a new house for a fraction of the "new house" cost. We are excited to restore it and make it nice. I absolutely love new houses, but Nathanial and I both love even more the thought of taking something ugly and making it new. Maybe it's silly, but it means something to me that Walnut Street will be a little nicer after we're finished with 1211 E. Walnut St.!! Nathanial has begun the gutting process. We are knocking down walls, pulling down drop ceilings, moving the bathroom, adding closets... the list goes on. Thank the good Lord we don't have to live in this mess while we do it!! Here are some of the pics we've taken.

In other parts of our lives, there hasn't been a whole lot going on. Ava has been sick for a week, with Nathanial and then me getting it too. Stuffy nose, cough, Ava's eyes have been horrible. Fun times in the middle of the night, let me tell ya! Ava has been up from about 2am to 3am every night this week. I just absolutely hate seeing my little girl sick. I just wish I could take it all for her. I hope Aspen doesn't get it. We did still make it to preschool and dance this past week though. We got a report from Ava's teacher that she has been "helping" with any little kid who might be sad, hurt, or crying at school. She loves on them and tells them it will be okay and tries to hold their hand. Of course, that makes a mom happy let me tell ya! We can try to teach her about the love of Christ, but it's times like this when you get a glimpse of the fact that she is learning how to apply it to her everyday life!!

Aspen is CRAWLING!! Little by little, she gets better everyday!! She has also become very demanding!! But hopefully the more mobile she is the more independent she will become!

We went out Monday night to cheer uncle Nolan on at his football game. Nana got some Lil Hatchet shirts made... they are pretty cute. (We won't tell that Ava is technically a Cardinal for the time being!).

Well I hope everyone is having a good week!! Adios

The Zoo and Preschool

2008-09-03T17:43:00.000-07:00

First of all, thanks to those of you who came out to the coffee shop on Friday night to hear Marc Scabilia play. We had a great time!!

Saturday morning we took bright and early for St. Louis to go to the zoo. We had a great time, even though as the day wore on the temp got a little to high for us! By the time we left the zoo at about 3pm most of the animals were sleeping, probably because it was so darn hot!! The gorilla's were definately our favorite, they were chasing each other around and beating on their chest's. It was hilarious!! Ava loved it, and Aspen was a very good girl, even though she refused to nap in her stroller. Then we hit up The Container Store, REI, Whole Foods, and Panera Bread and headed home. Nathanial got pulled over in Illinois, but luckily we did not get a ticket due to our tired faces and Nathanial's "look of surrender".... we got a good laugh over that one! We made it home just in time to drop off Nana and Nolan (and the girls) and head over to Antioch to see the band play again. Great show, but hardly anyone there to enjoy ... kinda sad.

Monday we went on a killer bike ride... HOT HOT HOT! But good exercise.

Tuesday was Ava's very first day of Preschool!!! She (of course) forgot I was even with her the moment we walked through the doors and barely even said bye. She had a great time and had lots to say.... but her first words were "mom, some girl pushed me out of line" and then "my teacher wouldn't let me have a drink". Later she did say she got a drink, just not an extra drink. I know little kids have their tiffs, but it's a little hard to think about my baby getting pushed out of line!! I try to blow it off and just remind her to be kind to the other kids. I have a feeling this may only get harder as my kids get older.... I hope God gives me the grace to deal with it and not be one of those "crazy parents!!" I'm really excited for to be going to school... she's such a big girl. I just wish I could watch her without her knowing I was there... 3 year olds just don't communicate everything they did too well!! Tomorrow night she has her first dance class. Can't wait for that!!

I better not leave out the little Penners... she is wanting to run around all over the place. I'm trying to get her to crawl, but she just scoots on her butt and cries for someone to pick her up and help her walk around. She can get up on all fours, but falls when she tries to move. She is quite the little talker and loves to make noises with her mouth. She also loves giving kisses right now, which drench the other person with slobber and then she usually ends up biting you!! She's getting so big too!!!

2008-08-27T13:23:00.000-07:00

FRIDAY night at Max Cafe (COFFEE SHOP ON THE CORNER OF 57 AND MAIN ST.) MARC SCIBILIA will playing at 7pm. If you've never heard of him (I hadn't) then do a search for him on myspace. He's really good. Than and I will be going for sure to hear him. He's also playing at the benefit concert Sat. night at Antioch. He'll be playing around 9pm there, but the whole thing starts earlier. I think we might go to St. Louis on Saturday so we won't be around for that show. I'm torn though, he seems to be a really good musician. Hope to see some faces on Friday night! :)

Nathanial won a 5K!!

2008-08-23T09:52:00.000-07:00

My husband won allright!! He won the "Fastest Male Walker" award!!! We've had a good laugh over this and I'll post a pic of him with his trophy!! He walked so that he could push the stroller and get in some exercise as a family.... what a good daddy!! We finished in 45min.... he pushed me, that is fast for mommy!!! We did have a good time, and it was for a good cause. Ava ran in the kid's race... she fell once but finished strong! Go Ava!! Aspen slept for most of the walk.

Another week has flown by.... play group was fun. Anyone who hasn't seen the pictures from Aspen and Meredith's little tiff, check out the Sweet Baby Bean blog on my list of blogs. It was so funny. We met a new mommy at the park who joined us... that was fun.

Today after the 5K we went to Mamaw's because Aunt Shelli was home for a visit. Ava was excited to see cousin Emmy (Shelli's dog). You would think she is human, with all the clothes she has and attention she gets!! Anyway, we had a good time eating homemade ice cream, swimming, and I got some new clothes since my sis went through her closet!!!

Well, that's about all I can think of for now. I am hoping and praying for a good week. One where we enjoy each other's company and don't take any of our special moments together for granted.

I'll leave you with a few random pics. The first two are just my two girl's having fun at Grandma's.

Weird enough, there were two horses being walked down our street the other night. Nathanial yelled out to them and they came over and the nice man let Ava take a ride. She was in awe!! It was fun and really random!!

Here's my Ava just minutes before she walked down the asle at Aaron and Stephanie's wedding. It was beautiful, I wish I had more pictures from it!!

Finally Friday!!

2008-08-14T19:12:00.000-07:00

It's finally Friday tomorrow!!! I have worked everyday this week, and let me just tell you that my house is a disaster!! I'm so glad I usually only work 3 days! A lot has been going on this week too.... We made an offer on a "fixer-upper" and it was ACCEPTED!! We're a little nervous about all that entails, but excited too. Our washer and dryer both broke!! Luckily my dad is very handy and fixed the dryer and will be attempting to fix the washer tomorrow!! Mom and I were busy playing with the girls and making peach cobbler tonight. Nathanial and Ava are both in Aaron Willis and Stephanie Peek's wedding this weekend so he had to run to Evansville to pick up his tux and have dinner with the wedding party and family. The girls and I decided to stay home mainly because I was too pooped to run around all evening!!! Plus, our sweet Penn likes to be at home in the evenings especially!

I'm so thankful and looking forward to the return of normalcy next week! Being home 4 out of 7 days is such a blessing to me. And knowing that when I work my girls are in good hands also means the world to me. Thank you mom, Miriam, and GG for helping me out!!!

I'm gonna include a few pics, and then I'm off to bed....

Ava went to her friend Brooklyn's birthday party.... it was so cute.... they were bowling!!!! Ava's first time to bowl and she loved it. She had a blast.

Ava and her daddy's snack at 10pm...too late for little girls to have pbj and chips and salsa!!!

Sweet little Penn hanging out at Brown County State Park with her big sis's glasses on!

Yes, my 3 year old daughter went tubing!!! They went really slow though of course, and daddy kept her safe!!

I still have holiday world pics to post... we went last week and had fun there too. One more thing... Andrea Boes just came to mind. I'm not sure when her surgery is right this second, but i know it's in the next few days. Please remember to keep her and her family in your prayers. Thanks!!

Post Left Over Love Feast

2008-08-09T11:38:00.000-07:00

The Leftover Love Feast went pretty well. We were able to raise $781 for the land and home for widows in India! Not that we expect that every time, and no one needs to feel obligated to give, but if you want to share what you have with the poor, this is one way to do that! Also, we open to suggestions of other ways to bless the poor!

The selection of food was, I must say, pretty impressive. We had everything from a pan of left over spaghetti to my pan of lengua (cow tongue with jalapenos, onion, chick peas, and tomatoes). We had lots of dishes made with garden fresh vegetables and fresh blackberries, peaches, and homemade ice cream for dessert.

A nice variety of people showed up. There were several very young and several not so young with a good mix in between. I (Nathanial) was a little disappointed with the absence of young families and young adults, but I understand that this is America and people are busy. Hopefully next time we can let people know far enough ahead so they can plan to make it. We had a great time and look forward to doing it again!!

Here are just a few pics:

Ava and GG

CodyAbby and Jenna

Leftover Love Feast

2008-08-03T17:42:00.000-07:00

Hello Brandi's Friends,

I have an idea... Don't be scared. It involves food, fun, and fellowship for free (sort of). For a while now I've wanted to get a broad range of people together in one place for several purposes, but I wasn't sure how to make it happen or what expression it would take. Well, now I think I know. This Wednesday night we are hosting our first ever Leftover Love Feast. The idea is for each family or individual to bring a dish that doesn't cost them anything extra. Bring a leftover meal, garden grown vegetables or fruit, something at the back of the fridge/freezer or cabinet you know you will never eat, something you've caught or killed, or resurrected food (if you don't know don't ask). Be creative, but don't spend any extra money. I know we have a cow tongue in our freezer that has been dying for an opportunity like this. Anyways, bring it in a microwave safe container or a baking dish for the oven. Please don't bring anything disposable. I can't promise a five-star feast, but I can promise that no one will go hungry.

There are several reasons that we've wanted to get together under these circumstances. First, we ask but definitely don't require that you make a small donation of the money you'll save on one meal to help buy property and build a house for widows and orphans in India.

Second, we just want to bring people together build community and share life. We live in a fragmented and self-centered culture that tends to leave people isolated and at arms length; we feel that is not the way life should be lived and want to combat that.

Third, we are an extremely wasteful people. This is one way to use all the resources we've been given and be good stewards of Creation.

So in a nutshell: Come Wed. August 6th at about 6:30 to the PowerHouse on Main St. in Washington, IN. Bring a dish of food that would otherwise go to waste. Families and friends are welcome. We'll eat, maybe have some music and play a little cornhole or bocce. You may want to bring a lawn chair.
Also if possible, walk or ride your bike instead of driving.

Please let us know if you can come.

Hope to see you there,

Nathanial Rainey

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FLOWING WITH CREATIVITY

2008-07-28T18:05:00.000-07:00

My goodness the days get away from me!! We've been quite busy. After tomorrow we will have shown our house 3 times this week. I try not to get excited, and I really don't even want to hear the "report", I just want someone to make an offer on our house. We still don't know what we'll do if it would sell. We went and looked at a house tonight and I was disappointed. It wasn't as nice as I'd like it, but it was too nice to really do much too. Anyway, only time will tell I guess, and in the mean time, I have a fairly clean house most days!!

As for my last post.... I haven't done that well at not getting upset over the little stuff.... it frustrates me so. Life is so short, and here I waste so much time being mad over things that just don't really matter. Why do I do it?? I guess it's similar to what Paul wrote about in Romans 7.... "the evil I do not want to do I keep on doing". I was inspired at church on Sunday to dig deeper. Since being home from India, to be honest, I haven't done a lot of digging and being honest with myself and the Lord.... really trying to know Him on a deeper level. Maybe that's a lot of my problem. I guess I should try and remedy that, eh??

Okay, here's the stories and pics of my cuties!! First off, we enjoyed ourselves at Jerry and Jessica's wedding and reception, especially Ava. She had a blast playing with her friend Brooklyn. Of course I was a little embarassed when they went up to the DJ and the next thing I know he's announcing that there are two little girls who have lost their mommies!! I was watching them the whole time....but the other 400 people didn't know that!! They danced their little hearts out to the mariachi (spelling?) band!

All of the Schaffer's came up to my mom and dad's to have lunch and swim. We had a great time, here's just one pic of Nathanial with Aspen and Jaxon.

Then, here's some pics of my little creative daughter. She has found a new pastime, drawing pictures of her family!! She has been thinking up all kinds of things to do. Yesterday, she played all day without asking to turn on the tv once! I was so excited.

I feel bad that I don't write more about Aspen, but she's not really doing anything new. Sitting up like a champ and being as sweet as ever of course though!! She's just a little doll baby, we all love her so much!! She does have a new nickname... Penzilla! She is so rough, and always head butting you or sticking her fingers up your nose or trying to rip your face off!!! We got a good laugh out of that one!

Here's Ava coming up with a solution to reach her favorite book. And a sideways video of Ava doing her two favorite things simultaneously, dancing and drawing.

What's on my mind today.....

2008-07-19T06:22:00.000-07:00

Last evening Nathanial and I got into a stupid arguement that ruined our entire night. Mainly because I was refusing to "get over it" without him acknowledging that it wasn't ALL my fault. Anyway, I have realized this morning that I DO NOT want to waste our life together arguing over silly things that don't matter!! (Don't get me wrong, I have realized this before, and obviously it still happens!) But, this life goes by so fast and an entire Friday night was ruined for us. That makes me mad, that we let the enemy come into our life and steal from us like that! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH..... I'M GONNA FIGHT BACK!! So, to all my friends and family out there... if you hear me bickering over somthing small and insignificant, remind me of this post!!

On to more happy things!! What have we done over the past few days??? Well, Ava made me a "shoe snake" the other day. She used every single pair of shoes that she could find in our house... it was adorable, and she was so proud of her work!

The same day, finger painting involved her arms all the way up to her shoulders!!

Daddy playing with Aspen last night at GG's (great-grandma's).

Aspen and Nana the other night.

One thing I hope to do in the near future is post a blog with some of our pictures from our time in India. It's been over a year now since we've been home, and while I still can't say I miss India, I do miss the friends we made over there very much. There were so many Indian and foreigners that we really developed close friendships with... I wish it wasn't so far away. A trip back to visit would be so hard on me and the girls....Nathanial is all for it though. I would be if it weren't for having two little ones. One little one was okay, but I'm not sure about two!! I'll try to post some pics later. Have a great day everyone!

A BEAUTIFUL DAY

2008-07-13T18:34:00.000-07:00

What a great day!! We got up and made it to church only about 5 minutes late (that's huge for us!) We had lunch at Nathanial's Uncle Brian and Aunt Lori's house. Then Ava went swimming with Nana and we hung out at the house. We spent the evening all together eating and playing corn hole. Nathanial was a bit wound up and drove everyone a bit crazy at times.... but he cleaned out the garage and did the supper dishes tonight. I asked him what he did with my husband...I'm not used to this!! He's a great husband, but he doesn't usually like to clean!!!! So, now I have time to blog! YEA!

I'm just going to be random, hope that's okay. I'm totally thrilled that the Knepp's are all home together again, but man, I miss getting to hang out with Mandi in the hospital and just talk!!! I can't wait til they can have visitors more often!!!

Yesterday went to Evansville with my parents to have lunch with my sis for her birthday! We went to Nagasaki Steakhouse and Ava had her first hibachi grill experience. I have never seen her sit so still at a restaurant!! It was great! Plus the food was awesome! It was definately a winner, we'll eat there again with the girls!!

Some friends of ours are in the process of purchasing the little coffee shop on the corner of Main St. and 57 here in Washington. They are going to be open from 7am to 10 pm or something. They also serve lunch. I haven't been there yet... but I plan to go and support their business. Check it out if you get a chance. The new owners are Amber Cook's mom and step-dad. Neat people.

Well, I think that about wraps up my thoughts this evening. I'm going to go read my book that Nathanial bought me... "Holy Cow". It's about a girl who moved to India and basically hates it....but supposedly she changes her mind somewhere in the book. I don't think it will change mine!!! It's interesting though, it's all so familiar! Well I hope you all have a wonderful day!! Here's a few pics....

Ava and Aspen at our playgroup..................................Aspen enjoying her first teething bisquit!

It's about time!!!

2008-07-09T05:50:00.000-07:00

Well, well, well!!! It's about time I update this thing! Life has been crazy! As I'm sure you all know Andre, Mandi, and Gabe were in a serious car accident about 3 and 1/2 weeks ago. Since then I've been spending as much time as I can with them, and the rest of it trying to maintain my household!! We did actually still go to Florida as planed for my friend Alicia's wedding. We had a good time and we stayed in a condo on the beach for the first time. It was so nice to get up, eat breakfast, go to the beach, come back and nap, then go to the pool!! Relaxing!! Nathanial and I napped with the girls almost everyday, that NEVER happens here!! Then when we returned home I went in to see Mandi and spend the night with her.... let me just say I almost cried when I saw her walk (with a walker) right into the bathroom, do everything herself, and walk right back to bed! I was so proud of her and so thankful to our Lord for bringing healing to her body!! Please remember to keep them in your prayers, even though they are home now, there is still more healing to be done!! It has been amazing to see the prayers that have already been answered. God is so faithful! Okay, since I'm overwhelmed with everything that we've been doing in the past weeks, I'm just going to post some pics and tell about them! Hopefully I'll do better in the near future!! (I need to catch up on everyone else's blogs too!!)

Julian Schaffer, Ava, and Adyson Schaffer enjoying popsicles together!

Ava, Julian, Adyson, and Colten... for some reason they all just HAD to wear one of my shirts to sleep in! We had a sleepover to give their mommy a little break!! It was fun!

Here's Aspen playing with cousin Riley! They really entertained each other, it was cute!!

Wow!! A rare pic of my husband and I without children!!!! This one was at Alicia's wedding... by the way, her and Matt went to GREECE for their honeymoon... I'm soooo jealous!!

Little Miss Ava on the beach... she had such a great time! I told her one night, "Man Ava, your little legs are tan!" She replied, "Yeah, just like Hannah Montana!!" I thought... WHAT??? How does she even know who Hannah Montana is, and why in the world would she say that??? She always is coming up with crazy stuff.

I love these big sister/little sister shirts!! Aspen looks so grown up in a t-shirt!!

This is little Ava, Nathanial, and big Ava!! Ava made so many friends at our condo... this is just one. She couldn't believe there was someone else named Ava!! They all played on the beach together every morning and swam together in the afternoons!! It was great!!!

Daddy and Pen

Daddy and Ava finding shells!

Fun in the kitchen

2008-06-14T07:45:00.000-07:00

I just had to add a pic and a video from Ava's and my time in the kitchen this morning. We had a lot of fun. :) We also heard from Nathanial this morning... he and Dr. Baker were getting ready to set off on the adventure. We hope to hear from him on Tuesday morning. Their goal is to be finished by then!! By the way, it's probably not as dangerous as it sounded with the snakes and alligator's. I guess alligator's arent' dangerous. I still wouldn't want to see one when I'm just in a 40 lb canoe though!!!

Aren't they so cute!!

2008-06-12T12:38:00.000-07:00

Seriously, you should ask my mom and Nathanial how many times I've said that phrase! I am so totally in love with my girls.... it's crazy! I guess that's a good thing... right?? Anyway, I love being able to post pics and little stories about them for anyone who wants to know! I only wish it didn't seem to take me so long to do! Maybe I'll have more time for the next week. Nathanial is off doing the Texas Water Safari. If you think of him please lift him up to Jesus, it's pretty much 4 days of nothing but canoeing, day and night. In alligator and snake infested rivers to make it even worse!! His is always up for an adventure though... I love that about him, but at times it makes me worry!

Ava enjoying some Scoops....mmmmmm..... chocolate is her favorite!

What can I say, I love this picture of Aspen playing and doing so well sitting up.

The big news on her is that she cut a tooth this past week. We had one night where

she was a little fussy, but that's it!!

Aspen and daddy the night before he left for Texas.

Ava and her friend Julian Schaffer

We have 2 play dates that we attend, one that is mostly babies.... we usually enjoy the nice temperatures of inside the house! And then one outside that consists mostly of toddlers and young kids. Ava had so much fun playing at the Schaffers house this morning... as you can tell! She is sound asleep in her bed right now! Both girls are asleep actually, so I should probably get busy picking up the house! Have a wonderful day everyone!!

WHERE DO I EVEN START

2008-06-04T18:17:00.000-07:00

Where do I even start.... it seems like a lot has been going on at our house!! Nathanial picked out the pictures and put them on here and I'm adding the text, so they may be a little out of order, but that's okay:) To the left here is Ava watching the "big truck" deliver our concrete Tuesday morning at 6:45am. That was pretty cool to her... plus now she can ride her tricycle all the way from the alley to our back door!!

Next we have Ava and Aspen asleep in their stroller after our little walk. So cute! Then, Aspen has discovered that she can suck on her toes. So we have one thumb sucker and one toe sucker!! It's awfully cute, but I hope that she's not still doing that when she's walking!!

This pic was taken tonight, we went to Aaron Willis' house for a cookout, he is engaged to Stephanie Peek for anyone wondering who that is. This is Ava's friend, Erin.

This is Ava playing with her new Dora ring toss/sprinkler. I'm telling you, it was the best $8 I've spent in a long time. She loves it!! It's so hot already, I can't wait to take the girls swimming.

Aspen tried a few bites of popsicle tonight, I shouldn't have let her taste something so sweet probably. She went crazy over it. She has only had milk and rice cereal so far. I'm thinking of giving her some veggies soon.

Last but not least is a video clip of Ava trying her hardest to get away with taking a nap at 6pm!! We were trying to work in the yard, since we have an open house tomorrow night, and she had just played too hard I guess. It was so hot, yet she had to have her blankie!! If anyone reads this please send up a little prayer so that we can make a wise decision. We're thinking about making an offer on a lot here in town to build on. We just can't decide. Big decisions just kind of make us ill. Thanks!!

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Camping with the Briggeman's

2008-05-27T18:15:00.000-07:00

Saturday evening we headed out to Glendale to try out our new tent. Let me just say it is a TINY four person tent that we are going to have to send back for a bigger one!! Anyway, we had a great time. The girls and Nathanial slept just like we were at home, of course I tossed and turned most of the night and woke up pretty sore from sleeping on my thin camp pad. Nathanial says I have to be tough and not break down and buy an air mattress. I'm not so sure about that. You can bet next time I will have an air mattress!! Ava and Isaac had so much fun. We had a 24 hour period with no Dora, Diego, or Alvin and the Chipmonks, and she had a blast. She was sooooo dirty though! And we did find two deer ticks on her, one of them was stuck right in her belly button!! I hate those things. Here's the highlights from our weekend!

Daddy and Ava on their canoe ride that made me a little nervous.

Best buds, Isaac and Ava

Checking out the fish Nathanial and Jordan caught!!

Our Back Yard

2008-05-22T19:30:00.000-07:00

You know, somedays I'm so ready for our house to sell. And then there are days like this one, and I just love our backyard. I even think I'd be okay staying in the house we live in now. It drives me crazy at times, not being able to make decisions and not knowing what I want!! We had so much fun just hanging out together as a family the other night. It was great. Here are just a few pics.

Ava and her daddy playing in the "tent" they built.

Mommy, Ava, and Aspen in the Hammock.

Our cute little backyard. :)

Well, I'm extremely tired. I was home all day today with the girls. It's amazing how little I'm able to get done in one day. I'd rather hold my girls and snuggle them then do anything else. It's great!!

Spending the night at Mamaw's house!

2008-05-18T05:51:00.000-07:00

Friday night daddy went to West Virginia to go white-water rafting so us three girls decided to go spend the night at mamaw and papaw's house.
It was Aspen's first time to spend the night anywhere except home. That is really funny to me, since Ava had been to Colorado, Florida, and camping several times by now!! Things are definately different this time around. We had fun at mamaw's, especially Ava, she likes having all the attention. She had fun playing outside on Saturday. I was so glad it was nice and sunny. Saturday night we had dinner at Mi Pueblo with the Schaffer clan. Two adults and 6 kids. It went suprisingly smooth. Ava was very well behaved.... which was a change from the usual while eating out. Sunday we spent the afternoon at nana's (the other set of grandparents) celebrating Nathanial's grandpa's 80th birthday. All-in-all a very good weekend.

I'm finally doing this!!

2008-05-14T12:08:00.000-07:00

Okay, well here goes! I've been wanting to start a blog for a long time. I love looking at other people's blogs, and we have friends and family that live rather far away (some on the other side of the world!). So, I decided to quit just talking about it and do it!! I have no idea what I'm doing so just bear with me and I'll figure it out from some veteran bloggers!!

By the way, this pic is of our 2 beautiful daughters, Ava Faith, 3 and Aspen Grace, 4 months.